I spent a shitload of money today. First thing this morning I spent about $3800 on braces for my oldest. That’s money very well spent! I thank my parents (in my head anyway) often for the torture that was my braces that resulted in pretty teeth! About an hour and a half later, I plunked down $1500 to an attorney as a retainer for an uncontested divorce. That’s money I have very mixed emotions about spending. It’s the culmination of a lot of shit that’s been going on for a long time. NOT money I thought I’d ever spend when I exchanged vows almost 20 years ago. BUT it’s money that is saving the life of my Babymama and is ending a marriage without ending a family. If you don’t understand how ending a marriage can save a family, I pity you. If you don’t understand it and feel compelled to get all up in my shit about it, then we have a problem, and I have contempt for you. Do NOT fucking pass judgement on ME based on YOUR preconceived limitations.

Sigh

Anyway, I spent a shitload of money today.